Archive for Inner Game

The Fathers Day Card and Assumptions

// July 10th, 2010 // No Comments » // B2B, Coaching, Inner Game, Personal Sales

Last month was Fathers Day here in the UK.  And if you’re a father, like me, you get to put your feet up for a whole day, have lots of attention and get the Fathers Day Card treatment. 

And it’s the cards that tickle me everytime.  They’re just so corny, so stereotypical of a dad.  Beer swigging, football watching, bad fashion sense, always moaning about the bills, tissues in cardigans.

It’s all in the head

// June 19th, 2010 // No Comments » // Inner Game, Phone, Prospecting

Today I’ve been helping some sales people learn how to pick up the phone and call new customers. Sounds pretty easy really but as soon I mentioned they were going to be phoning people who weren’t expecting their call, they froze.  You could visibly see the fear in their eyes.

It’s all in the head.

An impressive Cold Call

// June 6th, 2010 // No Comments » // B2B, Inner Game, Prospecting

This morning I happened to be particularly busy, lots of “to do” jobs, some deadlines, challenges to consider and a few calls from clients expected. Then the office phone rang.

It wasn’t the client I was expecting; it was Bob from a local stationery supplier. 

Bob was impressive, I mean good, real, genuine and his call worked.

Fly in the Pan

// May 8th, 2010 // No Comments » // B2B, Coaching, Inner Game, Personal Sales, Presenting

Having two early teenage boys faces us with a major problem.  No, its not mood swings, empty fridges or Pizza complexions…no, its missing the toilet pan. Boys are just bad aimers, if you see what I’m saying.  Quite frankly, this is a man thing not just teenagers.

We tried everything.  Telling them, encouraging them, shouting at them, rewarding them and nothing improved the situation. Until we bought a packet of fly stickers and stuck one to the pan just like this.

Big up your Goals

// April 3rd, 2010 // No Comments » // B2B, Inner Game, Personal Sales, Phone

Sales Motivation System SMS

// March 19th, 2010 // No Comments » // Inner Game

Detachment Improves your Closing Ratios

// February 27th, 2010 // No Comments » // Inner Game, Personal Sales

Famine and Feast which sales mentality are you

// February 5th, 2010 // No Comments » // B2B, Inner Game, Personal Sales, Phone

[podcast]http://www.fileden.com/files/2008/11/29/2204982/Archer%20Training%20Podcasts/Feastandfaminepodcast.mp3[/podcast]

Lanes and lines help you appreciate your goals

// January 30th, 2010 // No Comments » // B2B, Coaching, Inner Game, Personal Sales, Phone

[podcast]http://www.fileden.com/files/2008/11/29/2204982/Archer%20Training%20Podcasts/Lanes%20and%20Lines.mp3[/podcast]

Customers will strive to avoid pain

// January 8th, 2010 // No Comments » // Inner Game

Have you noticed how many diet products there are on the market right now?  Even Tesco’s Supermarket is promoting its online diet. And have you noticed how they are marketing it to people. Are they focussing on losing weight, trimming inches or are they focussing on a new you, a slimmer figure?

Research from Minnesota University in late 2008 has shown that the buying public are more concerned with trying to avoid pain when buying products or services than anything else. In fact, over 80% of the people they interviewed were avoiding issues, problems and pains rather than striving for some goal.

Maybe this is to do with the current down-economy or the way people naturally are, but it certainly helps us when we’re selling.

Think about it. People will do anything to avoid real or perceived pain or to rid themselves of problems and this is a massive motivator.  NLP calls it towards and away from. People are motivated either as towards things such as goals or away from things like pain.

So a diet product will appeal to people differently.  Towards people will want to have a slimmer figure, get a partner or look good on the beach naked.

Away from people will buy a diet product if it helps them lose weight, to stop having tight fitting trousers, to stop wearing unfashionable clothes, to stop people staring at them or feeling sorry for them.

Think of the last thing you bought. Was it an away from or a towards purchase?  I bought some running shoes last autumn because my old ones were worn out and hurting my toes – I didn’t want that pain anymore.  I bought BUPA medical insurance because I didn’t want to worry about having to wait for an operation, and if truth be told, I didn’t want my wife moaning at me anymore that we didn’t have private insurance!

The difference is clear and it also helps us to look at the way we sell our products, services and ideas and the key lesson is that 80% of people are away from buyers. So dust off your products and services and examine how they prevent pain. Find out what troubles your customers experience. Do some research, run some focus groups, ask them, get your marketing department to find out what problems your products fixes. Forget about benefits and features, that’s so noughties, and focus on away from pain solving.

And me…I had a good Christmas so I definitely need to buy some diet products so these trousers don’t feel so tight. Anyone got the Tesco Diets web address?